85% Of The World Has Trouble Mastering This 1 Skill

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

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85% Of The World Has Trouble Mastering This 1 Skill

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

In life, there’s a common thread that weaves through every success story, every fulfilled dream, and every moment of triumph: confidence. It’s not just a feeling; it’s a skill — one that, when mastered, becomes the catalyst for ultimate life improvement. In this blog, we’ll explore the significance of confidence and how mastering this skill can transform your life in ways you might never have imagined.

The Foundation of Success

Confidence is the cornerstone upon which success is built. Whether you’re pursuing a career, building relationships, or chasing your dreams, belief in yourself is the key that unlocks the doors to achievement. Imagine trying to scale a mountain without the belief that you can reach the summit. Confidence is your internal GPS, guiding you through challenges and setbacks with the assurance that you have what it takes to overcome.

Embracing Opportunities

Life is a series of opportunities, but often, it’s the confident ones who seize them. A lack of confidence can keep you on the sidelines, watching as others dive into new experiences, relationships, and endeavors. When you master the skill of confidence, you’ll find yourself saying “yes” to opportunities that once seemed daunting. It’s about stepping out of your comfort zone and realizing the incredible potential that lies beyond its borders.

In my younger days, confidence was a rare commodity for me, and it seems like 85% of the world shares that struggle. I felt like the forgotten tree on a movie set. Not the star, not the one calling the shots — just an overlooked backdrop. It seemed like life was determined to keep me in the shadows, and I found it all too easy to point fingers at the world for not throwing me the opportunities I needed to let my true self shine. But every time a chance did come knocking, I found myself retreating into the dimly lit background, playing the role of the unnoticed tree in my own story.

Where do you lie in your own story?

Effective Communication

Confidence is not just about the way you perceive yourself; it also shapes the way others perceive you. Whether in the boardroom, on a stage, or in a casual conversation, confident communication is a magnet for respect and influence. When you speak with assurance and conviction, people are more likely to listen, trust, and follow your lead. It’s not about being arrogant but about conveying your ideas with clarity and belief.

People don’t necessarily do business with you when you lack confidence in what you’re selling, whether it is a product or service. What they buy is your own belief and power through confidence of how what you’re selling has truly changed your life and others who have used it. People buy you, not what you necessarily sell.

Resilience in the Face of Challenges

Life is riddled with challenges, and it’s easy to feel defeated when the going gets tough. However, confidence acts as a shield against the arrows of doubt and fear. It’s the unwavering belief that setbacks are temporary and that you have the resilience to bounce back stronger. With confidence, failures become stepping stones rather than stumbling blocks, propelling you forward on your journey to improvement.

If you have trouble staying the course with your confidence, take a look back at your past wins. Yes, this time I am telling you to look back in the past but for good reasons. The problem is that many people look in the past for the bad things and use their imagination to replay their past failures which obviously don’t help your growth. When you look back at your past wins you begin to acknowledge how much you have accomplished and how much you have achieved. Just close your eyes and think of a time where you smiled. What happened in the scene? How do you feel about it? Let your mind replay these successful moments and they will surely boost your confidence.

Building Healthy Relationships

Confidence is magnetic in relationships. Whether it’s friendships, romantic partnerships, or professional connections, confidence breeds trust and builds genuine connections. When you believe in yourself, others are more likely to believe in you as well. This authenticity forms the basis of strong, meaningful relationships, enhancing the quality of your personal and professional life.

Cultivating Confidence

Now that we understand the transformative power of confidence, the next step is to cultivate and master this skill. Here are some practical tips to help you build and strengthen your confidence:

1. Self-awareness: Understand your strengths and weaknesses. Acknowledge your achievements and learn from your mistakes. Focus more on your past wins than your past losses.

2. Positive affirmations: Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your capabilities and unique qualities daily.

Example: I am so great at what I do. I walk in to my work everyday and smile because I am a winner and I have my past wins to prove to myself that I am a natural born winner.

3. Set and achieve small goals: Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable tasks. Celebrate each success, no matter how small.

Dream big but start small. Take the steps and not necessarily the leaps. Fall in love with the journey and not attached to the outcome. Maybe the small steps you take brings you to a much better outcome than you previously thought. Let life’s path unfold before you.

4. Embrace failure: View failures as opportunities to learn and grow. Understand that setbacks are a natural part of any journey.

5. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical and mental well-being. A healthy lifestyle contributes to a positive self-image. Do yoga. Go for a run. Go to the gym. Read books in silence. Do whatever it takes to build yourself mentally and physically. Do what makes you feel good and not forced.

6. Continuous learning: Invest in acquiring new skills and knowledge. The more you know, the more confident you become. It is important to be a thinker but become more of an action taker. Acquire the knowledge then test it for yourself. Don’t listen to me or anybody tell you to believe them unless you have truly experienced it for yourself. Let your mind experience new.


Confidence is not a destination; it’s a journey of self-discovery and self-improvement. As you master this essential skill, you’ll find that the colors of your life become more vibrant, and the possibilities more endless. So, continue building your confidence — one step at a time — and watch as your life transforms into the masterpiece you’ve always envisioned.

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